Monthly Archives: March 2015


autism assess tools

As a mom, I dislike assessments.
They reduce my child to a number range, a percentile, a one- or two-word comment. And it’s how one person measured him for one moment in time.
He’s so much more than that.
Just had to get that off my chest. [Yes, I know assessments are necessary. Guess I’ve just had my fill.]

Ain’t it good to know that you’ve got a friend?

Friendship is a topic many parents with kids on the autism spectrum deal with on a daily basis. And, in most cases, we know it’s not too many friends or even the “wrong” friends. More often than not it’s simply “my kids don’t have friends.” Or “they can’t keep friends.” If the definition of a friend is someone who calls or texts our kids, hangs out with our kids, wants to spend their free time with our kids … well, honestly, how many true friends do our kids have?

Yes, friendship is a sore topic.

I had a best friend when I was growing up. I could count on her to be there for me. Always. We did everything together. We rode bikes. We went to the store. We walked to and from school and ate lunch together. You know the routine. And we even fought with each other. But we always made nice again. In 10th grade she let me borrow her Elton John “Goodbye Yellow Brick Road” album which I listened to non-stop. She even loaned me her navy pinwale corduroy Levis which I absolutely loved [and my mom wouldn’t buy for me].

Selfishly, I wish my kid could experience that same bonding. But I have to be mindful of the fact that just because it made me happy to have that friendship, my son might not necessarily have that same need. But still …

Fortunately, parents can learn how to help their kids make and keep friends from an expert at the upcoming ARM Parenting & Sharing Workshop on Tuesday, March 24, 2015. Click here to register.

See you at A HEART-TO-HEART WITH MOM on Thursday, Mar. 12!


It’s time for another Heart-to-Heart with Mom roundtable discussion.

This Thursday, March 12. There are still some spots available.

Click here to register!

Come and share, learn, connect, laugh and most importantly, find out that you’re not alone.

Like I can really afford to lose an hour of sleep!

Lose an hour, but gain an hour of daylight.

Daylight Saving Time begins on Sunday, March 8, 2015 (set clocks forward 1 hour).